When I turned 30, I spazzed right the fuck out. I felt really old. Actually, no - it was more than that. I didn't feel old as much as I suddenly became very aware of my own mortality. I realised there were lots of things I hadn't done, and probably would never get to do. Like a huge door had shut on a part of my life and I just had to adjust.
Now my wife is facing the same thing.
In the year's head-start I've got on her, I've come to terms with the big three-oh. I keep pointing out that 40 is the new 30 (13,260,000,000 google results can't be wrong). I also keep pointing out that, while she might feel like she'll never achieve her goals of being a famous hip-hop artist like Princess Superstar, it's never too late. Kelley Deal didn't even pick up a guitar until she was 31. In fact, she was supposed to be in the band when she was 29, but couldn't get time off work. Sound familiar?
But that's nothing. Check this video out. It really gets going at 1:30
Fred Astaire was FORTY SEVEN YEARS OLD when he pulled that shit off. I'm thirty and I got exhausted just watching it. But it's more than just impressive that he was able to pull it off - I'd say that if he'd recorded that exact same routine when he was a younger man, it probably wouldn't have been as good. Look at the aggression when he smacks that cane around - it takes a real curmudgeonly old fuck to swing a stick like that.
So maybe 50 is the new 20.